Buyer Advice Dave Dubbin August 10, 2026
A bully offer, formally a pre-emptive offer, is an offer a buyer submits before the date the seller said they would review offers. It usually arrives firm, with a certified deposit attached and a deadline measured in hours, and it exists for one reason: to convince the seller that a strong bird in hand beats whatever offer night might bring.
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An offer date is an auction device. Hold offers for a week, let the showings pile up, and make every interested buyer compete on a single evening. It works because competition, not the asking price, sets the final number. A bully offer is a buyer paying to cancel that auction. In economic terms, the buyer purchases certainty and the seller gives up option value, the chance that offer night produces something better. In plain terms, the buyer overpays a little on purpose so they never have to find out what the room would have done.
Ontario's rules changed with TRESA in late 2023, and a few points matter here. Your listing agent must present any bully offer to you unless you have given written direction not to. You are free to consider it or to sit on your hands until the offer date, it is entirely your call. If you do decide to look at offers early, your brokerage is expected to notify everyone who has shown real interest in the property: buyers who booked showings, viewed it, or told the brokerage they intend to offer. That notification often turns a quiet bully offer into a small offer night on a few hours' notice, which is exactly what the bully buyer was trying to avoid. Sellers can also choose an open process and share the details of competing offers, though most still keep bids blind, and nobody may share a competing buyer's personal information either way.
Doing offer homework? These three go together:
A hypothetical, with made-up numbers, to show the shape. A semi lists at $999,000 on a Tuesday with offers reviewed the following Monday. On Wednesday a buyer who has already seen the house twice submits this:
Term | The bully version | Why it matters |
|---|---|---|
Price | $1,065,000 | Meaningfully above asking. A bully offer at list price gives the seller no reason to skip offer night |
Conditions | None | Certainty is the product. That means financing and inspection homework happen before the offer, not after |
Deposit | $55,000, certified, delivered with the offer | Shows the money is real and raises the cost of walking away |
Irrevocable | 10 pm the same night | The short fuse forces a decision before the brokerage can assemble a competing crowd |
Closing | The seller's preferred date | Removes the last excuse to wait |
One caution on the conditions line. Going in firm is only sensible when the homework is truly done: a full mortgage pre-approval rather than a rate quote, an inspection or a careful walkthrough with your agent beforehand, and a lawyer who has seen the paperwork. Firm without the homework is not bold, it is exposed. Our post on pre-approval vs pre-qualification covers the first piece.
Take the sure thing or run the auction? Honestly, it depends on the segment. In August 2026 the GTA is two markets. Detached and semi-detached homes in tight west end pockets can still draw real crowds, so turning down a strong early number costs option value that is worth something. Much of the condo market is the opposite, well supplied and slow, and a serious early offer there may be the only offer for weeks. A bully offer on a condo listing deserves a long, respectful look. On a sharp detached listing, the notification rule means entertaining it can spark the very competition the buyer hoped to dodge, which is a nice position for a seller to be in.
TRREB's July numbers, released August 6, are the reason this post exists. Sales were 5,995, down just under one percent from last July, while new listings fell 17.8 percent to 14,484. The average price came in at $1,003,956, down 4.5 percent year over year. Fewer new listings against steady sales means the market is tightening: more buyers competing over each listing, which is precisely the environment where offer dates return and bully offers follow. TRREB's own read is that this sets the stage for price stability. The Bank of Canada's next rate decision lands September 2, and a cut would pull more buyers off the sidelines and sharpen all of this. Numbers date fast, so treat these as a snapshot of early August 2026.
Facing a bully offer, or thinking about writing one? Reach out and we will talk through the timing before the clock starts.
Dave Dubbin
Real Estate Expert
Dave Dubbin & Associates
Real Estate Broker for Etobicoke and Toronto
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